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The Incredible, Failed, Yard Sale…….

Yard Sale Set upWell, I was all excited for our yard sale we had last week. I posted it on Craigslist early in the week. I posted it on Facebook and on the virtual garage sale Facebook page for our area. I thought having it on Friday and Saturday would help too. I had tons of boys clothes sizes 0-2t, plus some other baby things and miscelaneous stuff.  I thought, surely people will come because of all the baby clothes!

I was wrong…..

Friday, I ended up with a mere $10. Saturday, if you take out the $10 my mom spent on buying some of my leftover soy candles, I made a whopping $14!  Not much to pay back for the long and extremely boring hours my mom and I took turns sitting out there.

So now I still have all those clothes out under that canopy because I haven’t felt like spending the time to go out there and get the rest of them put away. I do not looking forward to bringing all that stuff back into our tiny house.

So my plan is to take some of  the clothes to St. Vinny’s since they will give you a coupon when you donate stuff, and then to take some of the better clothes to Mother Goose Resale because I was told that you can trade your clothes there. I might also want to take the changing table I had for sale and do a consignment.(I just now thought of that one.)

But one thing’s for sure…..I need to get all this stuff out of my house!

And……I am so done with yard sales!

Non Stick, Stainless Steel, or Cast Iron Cookware???

I’ve used non stick pans ever since I got married 12 years ago. I think I might have had a metal pan at one time too, not sure if it was stainless steel or not. I’ve always had issues with the non stick coating eventually coming off and having to get new pans whether passed down from my mom, or whatever.

So a couple years ago my mom bought some non stick Pampered Chef cookware for me when I had a party. I think we got them with my half off reward or something. So I was ecstatic! I loved them….for awhile….. I tried to take good care of them, but after awhile one pan that I used quite often started going south. I had had things stick in it when cooking and couldn’t get the cooked on oil or food off very well even when using the baking soda method. So I tried lightly scrubbing with the scrubby side of my sponge (which I know is a no no).

Well anyhow it just kept slowly getting worse and so did my next pan as I started using it more often. Then this year I started using my largest, deeper pan that I hadn’t used much and so it was still in really good shape. But then that one started getting scratches and started sticking, and now it has some light brown patches in the bottom!

So I decided that I am done with non stick pans, no matter how expensive or the quality because I think I just cook too much and the fact that sometimes I fry bone in chicken or pork (which I think has a lot to do with the scratches).

I needed something I could scrub if need be. Like….Really….Scrub…..

So I started thinking about Stainless Steel cookware. But then I realized that they are going to take a lot of oil to cook with if I’m trying to fry things like eggs that stick easy. I don’t want that. I need something that is somewhat non stick and can stand up to hard use.

Then I thought about Cast Iron Cookware . I’ve thought about looking into cast iron before, but now I needed something quick because my 2 smaller pans are shot and my bigger one is slowly getting worse.
So I did my research to make sure that cast iron would be right for me.

Here’s my list of needs as far as cookware goes:

  • Somewhat non stick
  • Affordable
  • Can be scrubbed with steel wool if need be
  • Heats evenly
  • Heavy duty
  • Will last for many years

So, in my research I found that Cast Iron in fact sounded like just what I needed!

Cast Iron:

  • Can be scrubbed with steel wool if needed. Just needs to be re-seasoned afterwards (I can handle that)
  • Eventually becomes pretty non stick once it is seasoned well. (sounds good to me!)
  • Is very affordable. Much less expensive than stainless steel or high quality non-stick pans.
  • Does heat evenly
  • Is definitely heavy duty!
  • Can be used in the oven. (Not one of my needs, but very cool)
  • Can last a lifetime if taken care of! (That’s awesome!)

Now there are some things that you should not do with cast iron, but these pale in comparison to the benefits.

  • Do not soak in water as it will rust. Make sure after rinsing with hot water to dry it thoroughly before putting it away.
  • Do not wash in the dishwasher (high quality non stick pans are the same way)
  • Cooking tomato based sauces in it for too long can cause pitting.
  • Not good for boiling water (that’s fine with me, I have Pampered Chef non stick pots for that)
  • Use a pan that fits the size of the stove burner so it will heat evenly. Apparently using a large pan on a small burner may cause the pan to warp.

How does this compare to stainless steel?

Stainless steel pans:

  • Can be scrubbed with scotch brite or nylon net scouring pads, but not with metal scouring pads unless you want your nice shiny pan to get all scratched up.
  • Is great for searing, but definitely not non stick so you’ll need a good amount of oil when cooking anything you don’t want to stick to the pan.
  • Can last a lifetime if properly cared for.
  • Can wash with soap and possibly even in the dishwasher. (I’ve read there is some debate about the dishwasher.)

So I have to say that stainless steel definitely sounds better than going with non-stick pans, but the deal breaker for me is needing something non-stick, so I decided on Cast Iron.

Well, I told my mom about this and she said she thought my uncle might have some. Anyway, she ended up having 2 pans herself that were packed away and she hadn’t used them in years. A small pan and a medium sized pan. She brought them to me and I used the medium sized one as it already had a nice smooth cooking surface and I loved it! I cooked eggs in it right off and only used a little oil and they turned out great. Only stuck a little, but I think with more cooking and seasoning since it had been sitting for so long, it will be fine.

The other pan she thought had had a coating on it and I could see that it looked like it needed a good scrubbing, like the coating was coming off or something, so I am going to get a scouring pad and scrub it nice and clean and then re-season it.

I think me and Cast Iron are going to get along just fine!

The cast iron pans my mom gave me are pretty old and I couldn’t find the manufacturer when I googled it, but here is one company that I have heard many good things about in my research:

Lodge Cast Iron Cookware

I’d love to hear what your favorite type of cookware is and why…….

The Bed Wetting Quest-Washable Bed Pads

Bed Wetting Washable Bed Pad

Ok, so Ekid is 5 and still wets his bed now and then. He has gotten steadily better this year, but last year it was pretty much every…..night…… Ugh! I tried those vinyl fitted sheets but they would just slip off in the middle of the night eventually, or rip. I tried the vinyl sheet that covers the whole mattress and zips up, but that just tore after a about a week, besides the annoying plastic sound…ugh!

I searched and searched for something else meanwhile having to wash blankets and sheets like crazy and shampooing the mattress, which is loads of fun and still doesn’t get the smell totally out….(I did find a wonderful product for getting the urine smell out though)

But a month ago or so I found these pads: Invacare Reusable Bedpads   This bed pad has worked great! it is pretty much like the ones they have at the hospital. I love that I can just put it right on top of the sheet and Ekid can lay on the pad and it is comfortable and waterproof!

He has had a few accidents on it and it has held up beautifully leaving the mattress and sheet nice and dry and so all I had to do was throw the pad and maybe his blanket, in the wash. The bed pad has been washed  and dried several times now and is still in tact and in great condition.

Now I thought at first that it would be better and stay put better if I put it under the sheet, but not so. It actually seems to stay put better on top of the sheet, plus when he wets, he doesn’t get the sheet wet and I don’t have to reach under the sheet to readjust the bed pad.  I do readjust it at bed time, but it stays put really well while he’s sleeping, even though he does move around some.  If you have a real mover, it might not do as well, but I suppose you could put some velcro or something on the bottom of it maybe?

Anyway, I really recommend the Invacare Reusable Bedpads , and yes that link is an Amazon link and I do make a little money if you buy from there, but it really is a great buy as I’ve checked elsewhere but Amazon seemed to have the best price when I bought mine.

Also, check out my post about an excellent product for getting rid of the urine smell for those times when it gets on the mattress anyway ;)

Bed Wetting Washable Bed Pad Underside

Everlast Body Slimmer???

So I’ve been trying to figure out how to boost the weight loss in my rear and thighs and tummy while exercising and I never really thought of these before. Body slimmers. People put neck sweats on horses necks sometimes to slim their neck down so why wouldn’t it work with people? lol

Anyway, the reviews are very very good and I like that it is kind of an all in one thing. I can use it when I go for my walks or even when I’m just doing housework. I’m planning on buying one and I’ll let you all know how it works! And best of all, it is very affordable! I mean $20 bucks? It’s worth a try!

*Update:
Okay, so I found out that this body slimmer pretty much only gets rid of water weight. It doesn’t actually help you burn more calories, so it is really a temporary fix that might last a few days. So I’ve decided to pass on this and just continue to focus on going for daily walks and drinking green smoothies :)

I’ll try and post some smoothie recipes I’ve found soon!

Here’s one that the kids and I really love:

Put all the ingredients below in a blender and blend!

3 cups fresh Spinach

1tbls Peanut Butter

1/2 Banana

3/4 cup Almond Milk

1 scoop  Whey Protein Powder Isolate (This is the only kind I’ve tried, but it tastes pretty good. Amazon has a good price on these compared to store prices.)

1-2 tbls Raw Honey (optional)

Focus, Focus, Focus…..

Wow, I keep meaning to post updates on here, but good grief, I’ve had a hard time focusing on anything that has to do with the computer or thinking in general lately. I had decided the last two weeks now to focus on getting my house clean 15 min. at a time, and have been doing pretty well at it so far. It’s been a slow process, but I know if I try to do it all at once I get burnt out and it just isn’t pretty. So I’ve tried to commit to doing certain things each day on a regular basis and then add to those things gradually as they become habits. Washing dishes EVERY night is one. This week I’ve pretty much been able to get all the dishes washed (by hand…no dishwasher)each night and have an empty sink in the morning. Then there’s cleaning in each room for 15 min. each, doing 2 loads of laundry each day(which my laundry pile is now significantly down! Yay!).

So then when I try to sit down at the computer, I just feel like I can’t think to do anything. I have several websites I need to get back to work on (my own) and like right now, the kids are not asleep yet. Ugh! This whole last couple of weeks it’s been like this. They just won’t go to sleep earlier. I try to get them to bed by 9, but that just rarely happens and even when I do, they won’t go to sleep. Cman is the biggest culprit since he always needs me in there when he’s going to sleep or else he gets out of bed or starts talking to the other 2 boys or one of the other boys starts making faces at him or something. I don’t know, it’s so maddening I feel like screaming!

The other thing is that we just need a bigger house. 800 square feet and only 2 bedrooms just doesn’t cut it anymore. The boys are growing and there’s so little room that there ends up being way more squabbles and arguing and Nboy who is going on 9 sometimes wants to just be alone so he can draw or read or something and he just can’t really. We have a good size back yard, but still, they play hard and rough and then of course somebody always ends up crying.

Sigh……

I’m just so tired of this cooped up place. Tired of hearing how other peoples kids go to bed so nice and early and no matter what I do, ours have a hard time getting to sleep. I’m sure if they had their own rooms it would be much easier.  I also realize if I got them up early on a regular basis that would help too, but even times that I do get them up early and thought “Oh, they shouldn’t have any trouble going to sleep tonight” inevitably they end up having problems still.

So anyway, I just can’t seem to focus on the house and my business ventures at the same time lately. I used to be able to. Not sure what the deal is……

Well, sorry for the sob story, but it’s what’s on my mind lately. Now I guess I should make sure to dig into my bible and pray about it.

And I guess I should go do something about the boys arguing in the bedroom when they are supposed to be sleeping!